Are You in an Older Woman / Younger Woman Relationship? For example, generally, you try to avoid people with two first names or those who abbreviate the word probably as “probs.” But you never know; that one awful abbreviator could be your soulmate. How many years separate you and the age each of you can be a factor. A 15 year age difference might not seem like a big deal to a 30-year-old and 45-year-old. But if one is 18 and the other is 33, there might be challenges. One can't go to over 21 clubs, may be just starting out on her own or in school.
Age Differences in Lesbian Relationships Why & How to Make Them Work So, I'm proposing this "8-year rule" in dating as an absolute. With a 32 year age gap between them, Paulson and Taylor ignited the concern of age differences in lesbian relationships. These so-called “May – December” relationships a big age gap between partners are more common than you think – and not just in lesbian couples.
What It's Like To Be A Lesbian Couple With A 20-Plus-Year Age Difference The 8-year rule states that you shouldn't date anyone outside of an 8-year age range. I've dated (or tried to date) women who are older, younger and, if you'll believe it, exactly the same age as I am. In today’s dating age, lesbians are finding one another on apps, unconsciously swiping according to a limited set of preferences, rather than picking each other up at queer bars and bookshops.